"Use your uniqueness to make a big deal out of God every day of your life." -- Max LucadoThat quote up there helped me along on a journey of self-introspection that somehow led to the creation of this blog. It comes from the book “Cure for the Common Life” by Max Lucado. According to Lucado, each person has a sweet spot -- a particular zone in which he or she was made to dwell. Life makes sense for the person who lives in his or her own sweet spot. But the person who hasn’t yet found and doesn’t yet live in his or her spot suffers from what Lucado calls “the common life” -- a mediocre existence lacking passion and purpose.
Basically, what Max Lucado says is nothing new. You’ve probably heard it before. I have. Many authors have written and speakers declared that each person is made for a specific purpose and is specifically equipped according to the purpose for which he or she was created. Of course, they have each written and spoken about it in slightly different ways. Among others, the sweet spot has been defined as the intersection between success (what you do best) and satisfaction (what you enjoy doing); the zone where passion, talent, and opportunity meet; and the region where interests, skills, and opportunity converge. Simply put: it’s where your gifts (or set of gifts) are utilized for your specific life purpose.
“Cure for the Common Life” includes a discovery guide -- a tool to help the reader find his or her sweet spot and, from there, to discover his or her life purpose. I have since found other “guides" on finding one’s sweet spot or core gift, or whatever else people may call it. Most involve the following steps:
- Listing down things that you loved doing and think you did well, whether as a child, as an adult, or somewhere in between -- those completed projects that made you feel successful and satisfied or those activities that seemed to come naturally to you.
- Finding the common threads in these activities -- recurring patterns as to how you went about doing the task, what subjects you found interesting, under what conditions you worked best, how you related to other people, what got you started and kept you going, and what particular aspect of the task gave you the most satisfaction.
- Gathering together all these insights, which may eventually lead to a personal mission statement of sorts.